Have you read about using Air Soft pellets to help balance the tires?
Shimmies can be out of balance tires, but death wobble is something worn or loose with the suspension or the steering. The most common cause, from what I've read, is loose track bar mounts or ovaled mounting holes. Then tie rod ends and adjustment bolts... You have new and top quality ball joints, so its not them...
On JKOwners.com there is a lenghty thread on finding and fixing DW, and while focused on the JK's, it really has universal application. It under "Moddified."
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