Look up the VDO catalog and find a temperature switch with the rating that you want. These are not much more than a threaded plug with a terminal on the end. Can order them from Summit or possibly a LAPS if you have one with counter folk who know what they're doing.
Use the switch to ground the control side of a Bosch type relay and turn on the fan(s). Since you have a two speed fan you can use two switches of different temp ratings with two relays for a staged system.
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All of that aside, I'd also be inclined to also go back to the mechanical fan, and supplement it with an auxiliary fan that via a relay comes one with the A/C clutch. That should give you the best of both worlds.
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