I also say it depends on the kind of person you are...
I bring extra medical gear since I have the training and experience to help others...
I bring extra recovery gear since I have the training and enjoy helping others...
I bring a portable propane fire pit & tank since I don't like some and we have many restricted areas in the southwest.
I bring a comfy chair and all the cheap ones cause me discomfort.
I can sleep on the ground but I am sore the next day and getting up from ground level is tough as an amputee....
I bring spare leg parts...but those don't wiegh much 
The Disabled Explorers Sportsmobile is 10,000 plus when on the trail, but it will allow a quad to camp in comfort and that makes it all worthwhile.
My Boy Scout pack weighs under 40lbs for 4 days and I can go ultralight to under 30lbs if water is aval...but I am sore, dirty, eating freeze dried.....
I think the reason you got the responses you did is because how much a person takes is a personal thing...even when we have more than we know we should we don't want to hear about it from someone else...especially if that person doesn't operate under the same conditions.
Now if some guy can show me how to carry a pull pal in a manner that doesn't take up room & wieght that is cool...but unlikely as you can't change physic's.
I am more likely to listen to someone who find a new and creative way to meet the same conditions/standards as I am with less/lighter gear.....
cigar smoking, wilderness first responding, ham talking night nurse who is overland certified and a fellow of the Royal Geographical Society.....
now everyone say "so what where have you been lately?"