OK, I'm hesitant to post here because frankly, your tone is about as unappreciative as I've heard in a while... but here goes:
I'm only unappreciative of those that relay 2nd (or worse) hand information and don't know what they are talking about. That doesn't help anyone, but it's a lot of what goes on around here. This place has some good information, but it's buried beneath heaps and heaps of useless info.
Regarding the bolt pattern, Dexter sells part number 008-247-005 which is a 10 x 2-1/4 inch hub and drum assembly with a 5x4-1/2 inch lug pattern using 1/2 inch studs to go with the electric trailer brakes referenced above. Yes, it is a cable actuated parking brake. No, it does not come with a cable or handle.
Whether it will fit your particular wheel without spacers depends on the wheel you are using. Generally aluminum wheels on Jeeps (for example) have such a small center hole they don't fit over the hub center/dust cap on the axle's hub. There is no way anyone here can say if yours will fit.
I just got off the phone with Dexter, they were very helpful. Part numbers 23-86 and 23-87 are the manual parking brake parts that you can fit to their 10" drums. Unfortunately the center bore/dust cap is about 2 5/8" diameter. Almost every wheel made with a 5x4.5 bolt pattern has a 1 7/8" center bore. Dexter tells me that due to a patent issue, they can't make their center bore 1 7/8". So the short answer is that no one makes an axle with a manual parking brake, 5x4.5" bolt pattern that will fit a Jeep wheel. You are forced to run spacers (and there are threads here that show how to do that).
At this point, there is absolutely no value in me ordering an aftermarket axle, and I'm not sure why that's the popular board suggestion every time someone asks an axle related question. If I want to keep the parking brake and run a 5x4.5 wheel, I have to run spacers with both the stock and aftermarket axles. I can't believe that's the case, but it is.
my 2c... I do hope it meets with your approval
Absolutely, you've clearly done some of this and know what you're talking about. Others should learn from that.