As for the synth oils. I would use Mobil 1 5w30 motor oil in the transmiaaion and transfer. It helps with cold weather shifts. Motor oil is the recommended. Other than that good old Dino works fine in these trucks. Make sure you adjust the valves every 20k or so. They can get too tight as opposed to loose. When that happens you can burn a valve, It was more common on the 2.3 than 2.6. Once you gone through everything just follow the schedule in the factory service manual.
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