You're learning things the hard way by doing them twice already. Put the brakes on and quit throwing parts at your Jeep. If you keep up with your current approach you'll end up with a vehicle that is so miserable to drive that you'll hate it. Trust me, I've seen it happen countless times.
What is it that your LJ won't do in it's current state that you need it to do? Get out there and use your vehicle, see what works for other people in your area, do some of your own research.
Generally you are going to find that cheap lifts/parts are exactly that, CHEAP lifts/parts. Save your $$$, do your research, put together a co-ordinated plan to build your Jeep to meet YOUR needs, not what some jackass like me tells you to do from a keyboard 3000 miles away. My '05 is built to run across the SoCal/Baja deserts at near race speeds while maintaining some rock crawling capability and cruise comfortably at freeway speeds/daily driver. My build recommendations would be based on my experiences. Unless a lot has changed in FL since I was there in the early '80's not much of my terrain matches yours other than the pavement. I'm happy with my mod choices, built the Jeep right the first time because I had a clear goal in mind and knew what worked for others in my area. Before you think I'm some blowhard that doesn't make mistakes, other than the basic spring over on my rock Jeep it's been through countless "do-overs" through the years. I learned from my past mistakes when I set out to build the '05.
Coan Racing/Dust Junkies Racing, 2012 Baja 1000 Class 1700 Champs
Dust Junkies Racing/Fat City Racing, 2010 Baja 1000 Class 1700 Champs
Fat City Racing/Dust Junkies Racing, 2009 Baja 1000 Class 1700 Champs