I've had both a 2004 6.0 and still have our 2006 F-250 crew cab lariat with the 6.0. l put a programmer on both and basically did the egr delete, mpg tune and a mild tow tune (to control the tranny shift points, engine brake etc), air bags, and 265/70r19.5 to handle ithe increase in GVRW. Both were/are reliable as long as you keep up on the maintenance. We sold our excursion because we needed more towing capacity, as I was hot shotting vehicles and was running a 53' triple axle 4 car wedge gooseneck with 40,000# plates
The biggest pain and money drain is all of the needless emissions crap Ford had to put on the 6.0. the Navistar VT365 is a 500k- million miles motor in school buses, tow trucks, vocational trucks and ambulances. International didn't put the FICM on the valve cover and because of the size of the engine bay in the medium duty trucks is much larger, they were able to space out components that don't like heat and vibration from places that cause heat and vibration.
The FICM has no lead solder which makes for a brittle joint and the location on top of the valve cover makes it "failure prone". So get an upgraded/reman that uses the better or correct solder and also upgrades the output voltage from 45-48v up to 52-58volts.
The stupid torque to yield bolts vs the ARP head studs are another area that can cause issues. The EGR cooler can flash heat the coolant causing a steam pocket that is capable of lifting the heads off of the block because the steam bubble generates more force than the bolts which have been torqued to their yield limit can handle. So it blows your head gasket. The TTY bolts are faster and cheaper to install when they were building the engines, Navistar fought with Ford to try and use head studs.
The EGR delete solves that possible failure point.
The stock variable vane turbo is capable of making more boost than the engine will handle with the TTY head bolts as well, so people who buy a tuner and slap in a 100+HP tune are setting themselves up for expensive repairs.
If you leave them alone tuner wise and do your maintenance religiously, the are dependable engines. But if you want to nearly double your mpg, your going to need to delete the .gov "good idea fairy" (evil cousin to the tooth fairy) garbage to get a better performing and longer lasting engine.
The tranny is probably one of the best transmissions for the years it was made. Make sure when the fluids are changed, the proper ones go back in.
I run shell T6 Rotella full synthetic in a 5w30 weight and ONLY USE MOTORCRAFT filters. They are the ONLY ONES that are made to the proper spec. Guys that try and toss in a wix, carquest, Mann or whatever are going to have issues.
I have a coolant filter plumbed in and change the coolant every 2 years with the Peak Final charge (pink caterpillar spec juice) and the oil gets changed ever 15k and I've never had issue with my oil/coolant cooler or associated systems.
You can upgrade the ridiculously low 90amp alternator to a 140amp for about $175
We love our truck/excursion. They are probably one of the best bang for the buck trucks out there but you need to understand there's a lot of people who are pushing incorrect/bad info because they heard if from someone who"knows". My wife's F-250 is pushing 200,000 miles and running strong. Ahed rather keep her '06 than get a newer vehicle because her truck has been so reliable.
Much more reliable than my '01 Montero LTD...
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