Update:
Sorry - no pictures this time...
But at the Overland Expo, I finally got to use my camp shower. There were no surprises, it worked out exactly like I thought it would with no problems! My wife and I each took 2 showers, and we only used about 5 - 6 Liters of water per shower. My modified shower head / recirculation valve system worked PERFECTLY!!!
The only thing that you need to remember, and be careful of is overheating the water. The way I have it set up with the water recirculating back to the water source when the shower head is turned off, the water is getting heated over and over again. Since the pump moves 1 Gallon per minute, after about 7 minutes (if the water container is full) you've already heated your entire water supply once. I found that when I had the heat set on a medium setting, after about 5 minutes the water was getting too hot. This is actually a good thing - because on my 2nd shower I put the heat on the lowest setting, and it was perfect - which is saving on propane use!
The P.E.T.T. enclosure was perfect, I had plenty enough room to shower, but I would not want it any smaller. ...But even my wife had no complaints.
The GSI Outdoors cedar shower deck did work as advertised. It worked great. But after only 5 uses (5 times getting wet, and then drying out) it's already starting to develope a few cracks around where the hinges are screwed into the wood. So I am starting to have some doubt about this item's longevity. But I'm going to keep using it until it breaks - and we'll see. Maybe it will surprise me!
The Coleman Hot Water On Demand unit continued to work GREAT! I topped-off the charge on the battery the day I got it, the first time I took it out of the box, and never charged it again. I used it in making all the videos and pictures above, and 4 actual showers out in the field. I would estimate that I have about an hour of run time on it so far (give or take), probably about 60 - 65 gallons has been pumped through it. So far, after that much use, I have not gone through an entire propane bottle yet, and I never got any low-battery indication. The unit did continue to leak, and on the last night at the Overland Expo I thought maybe the leak had gotten very slightly worse.
Since I bought the unit from REI.com, and since I've been an REI Co-op member for many years, I boxed it back up and returned it to REI. They took it back with no problems, and ordered me another one on the spot. Couldn't have been easier. I didn't have to pay a dime, and since I had it shipped to the store (again), there were no shipping and handling charges. Hopefully the new one doesn't leak! I'll let you know.